To Please a Woman

Article No. 2

Treasure and Pleasure Hunt

Since I have had several requests asking for some ideas on how to be romantic,  here goes.  This is one of my favorite, and one I recently suggested to my best friend, Gary, with some pretty steamy results!

Treasure hunts aren’t just for kids at birthday parties; adults can certainly enjoy the thrill of the chase just as much! 

Consider planning out an elaborate treasure hunt that leads your lover to each destination with love notes, offering simple clues as to what to do next.   Start with giving your lover one little clue while offering “rewards” along the way.

For example, when my best friend did this for his wife, Susie, he started by offering her a sexy love note, which instructed her to go to a certain address.  This address, the local florist had a dozen red roses waiting for her with a note attached that led her to her next destination.  

From one place to another, each stop presented her with another love note and another gift.  But, you only really need a couple, and they don’t have to be expensive – the idea is to be creative.  Keep  your eyes and ears open and you will be able to pick up hints as to what she likes, and go with it.

By the time she reached the final destination, a package containing a room key and a blindfold in a secret envelope were handed to her by the clerk at a luxury hotel.    When she entered the room, he had a gorgeous spread on the floor by the fireplace.   

Accompanying the picnic lunch, there were candles all over the place, music playing and of course, her husband – waiting to begin the treasure and pleasure hunt in a whole new way.

I hope this inspires you to keep trying new things – and to understand how important surprise and romance can really go a long way to please a woman.

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Aticle No. 1 

How To Find The G-Spot and Techniques To Drive Your Woman Wild!

 By Michael Webb
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 Did you know that women can have several different

types of orgasms? That’s right.

 Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail”

of all the female orgasms is achieved with the

G-spot.

 But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her

G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on

everything you need to know… 

1. How to find the G-spot

 First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather

than an actual ’spot.’ The G-spot is located about

2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the

underside of her stomach.)

You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels

like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth

just behind your front teeth.

2. How should you stimulate it?

 While most men would love to satisfy their ladies

with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea.

Why?

 Because it depends on factors like the position,

her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape

and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest

way to reach orgasm with the most chance of

success.

 3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot

 In most cases, women need to have their clitoris

stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once

it’s fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too

sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady.

Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and

uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto

the G-spot.

 4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot

 To really stimulate the G-spot, you’ll need to be

in a position that gives you great easy access to

work your magic.

 Here are two suggestions:

 1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her,

using your stronger arm.

 2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure

her from behind.

Actually, if you want even more

passion and excitement, try changing from one

position to another over the course of your

stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should

pleasure it.

 5. How to stimulate the G-spot with this technique

 The motion you want to use is the “come over here”

gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind that the

G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means,

in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder

than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly

and work your way up to a point she finds

incredibly satisfying.

 6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it

 First of all, remember that the best feeling will

vary for every woman. Alternate between two very

slight movements or spots to find what she likes

best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing

or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that,

there is a way to make this experience even MORE

pleasurable.

 7. The missing piece to a powerful orgasm

 Did you know that prolonged foreplay is said to

intensify orgasms? That’s right.  However, men

often focus so much on “performing” that they

forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new

and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are

guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you

go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the

routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it

becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve

orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in

their sexual experience. The very best way to

please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of

ideas’ ready to pull out whenever they’re needed. I

cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking

fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret

to fulfilled lovemaking.

About the Author:

Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.  

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