Want to know just a few of the tips that helped to make my lovemaking more exciting, steamy and full of passion? Ok. Read on. ’Cause if I can do it, so can you. Click to discover secrets to pleasing your partner.
1. Discover your partner’s other “sensual” zones.
So many guys don’t realize, or forget, that there are other areas of her body that crave your attention. You already know the obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, but there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and here’s the best part - even intensify their orgasm. Yes. Read that part again.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas for her that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it turns her on and pleases a woman.
2. Be romantic – set the mood.
(Do I need to hammer this one home???)
You may think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood for your lovemaking is too”sappy.” Do Not Kid Yourself!
She will LOVE YOU for this. She will appreciate it and, she will remember. This way, you get points for the actual event, and all those points for each time she thinks about it! Try to think of it the same way she will – imagine how special you would feel if someone went to all the trouble for you. Don’t underestimate this one -its a big one.
It doesn’t have to be a major production either, guys. Here is a little trick that I have learned. I keep a candle and some massage oil handy for spontaneous mood-setting and then I give her a sensual full- body massage. I always get lots of appreciation for this one.
3. Women love oral sex when you do it right.
Oral sex is an important part of foreplay. A common mistake men often make is moving the tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Here are two great tips that helped explain the correct techniques to me: Lick it like and ice cream cone instead of thrusting, and write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue. This makes it more exciting for her and many women will even climax this way.
The best piece of advice I was ever given for lovemaking is to keep things adventurous and be creative. The basics stay the same, but its how you do it that make it red, hot passion. Try a new position, or a new place, or a game or just be creative! Its what you and your partner need and want that counts.
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