To Please a Woman

Make Some Deposits In Her Emotional Bank

We already talked a little about the physical aspect of how to please a woman, but now I’m going to talk about a word that sends shivers down our spine and make us cringe in terror - emotions.   Now catch your breath and keep reading because here is one of the secrets that helped me turn my lovemaking around and its not difficult to understand, and its easy for you to do. Click here to reveal lovemaking tips.

Relax, we aren’t talking about some mushy soul-baring here.  We’re talking deposits.  Yep!  Just like in a bank, except I’m going to explain how to make them in her emotional bank.  Let’s start by clarifying that for women to be satisfied sexually, they often need to feel an emotional connection.  Not just the physical act of sex, but making love.  This is often true even in the most casual encounters and absolutely necessary for ongoing relationships.

Identifying Needs

Ok, so what is an emotional bank, and what the heck do you need to put in there?  The first step is to think about what her needs are – simple ones, such as security, companionship, fun, adventure, etc.  This isn’t brain surgery, and although we all have some of the same basic needs, others are very different.  Some women will want security and companionship while others want adventure, love and fun.  Think about what your own needs are if you are really stumped and that might help get you started.

Now once you have a good idea about this, all you have to do is take each need and make an imaginary deposit in your bank account.   Here is one you can start with - appreciation.  Most of us want someone to compliment us and tell us we’re doing a good job, or that we look great, smell great or if you are in a relationship, that we’re making the other person happy.   Start telling her this (sincerely) or showing her, and you will have so many deposits in that bank that you will soon notice a difference.  Or be fun, adventurous and creative.  If she needs security, then show her you can be trusted, “walk your talk.”

No, I’m Not Crazy

I can hear the shouting, already.  But Joe, I want to know how to have steamy, hot, passionate sex!  Well, guess what?  If you don’t make some of those deposits, you aren’t going to have it.  Simple as that.  Relationships don’t have to be so complicated, and neither does pleasing her.  Try this and see for yourself that by planning a little ahead and making those deposits in the bank you will please her and get what you want.

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